In this article, I will offer you five simple romantic gestures and simple keys that the bride is called to follow to increase the level of happiness in her marital relationship and to reflect positively on her family life with her husband and children.
1- Touch Your Husband
I encourage you to become for your husband as a wife who is absolutely closed. I do think it’s important to maintain a close physical relationship with your husband; But I’m not talking about an openly love expressing when you’re in public and when you’re with people.
What I mean is, like sitting next to your husband, leaning toward your husband, holding your husband’s hand, and touching your husband.
All these very important people in your life need physical contact: when you touch your husband in public, you make him feel good, also showing everyone around: “Hey, this is my husband, I’m crazy for him.”
Therefore, I encourage you to hug your husband in public.
2- Respect Your Husband
Respecting your husband is very important, which is essential for establishing an awesome marriage relationship: Men need respect more than than love. This is the state of men.
Therefore, when wives decide not to respect them, you will find that your husband is completely disturbed, loser, and feels imbalance in his personality.
Trust me, you will never be happy or comfortable with a loser. It’s a terrible feeling that will affect you, and if you have children, it will also affect your children.
The husband should be completely reassured, he need to know that her wife really respects him , and his role as a husband is also respected by his wife.
More you work to respect your husband, more affection you get from him.
The joy you get from his daily life is of great significance to all your family.
3- Be His Confidante
As wives, we need to be confidantes for our husbands. Some men want to be our husbands and not spread their emotions easily, we have to deal with this situation, and break down barriers in order to become their confidantes.
When your husband needs to talk to you, or just vent or think about something, and he is going crazy, stop and listen to him until he is done.
When a wife want to give her husband the greatest blessing and consolation, it is to listen to him and say yes, or if you really feel that he needs his wife, you can help him further, because what he tells you, don’t share it with your girlfriend.
He needs to know that his heart, thoughts and secrets are safe with you. The more you treat your husband with this attitude, the more he will be willing to do it, the more he trusts and safety in you, this is just a huge blessing for the wife.
4- Fuel his Love Language
This is a huge story: Know what your husband’s love language is and nurture it.
Perhapes, when you married your husband for the first time, you knew that his love language was physical intimacy and language intimicy.. Trying to break the ice in your lanuage, it will allow him to feel a different relationship from all his other relationships with others… it allows to be very close to each other.
You should’nt maintain any physical, gestural or verbal intimacy with your husband.
When you pass your husband, if he sits on the sofa, you will touch him, and if you have time, sitting on the sofa next to him.
If you just hold him or hold his hand and walk side by side, it will drive that guy crazy.
I encourage you to find your husband’s love language every day.
5- Give Him Space:
Sometimes your husband needs space, especially with children: sometimes the husband can go home and feel that something needs to be done because the children are at his feet and the wife is making dinner… As long as he is able, he needs to intervene..Give your husband a space.
When you really think that your husband needs space. Give him space not to suffocate him.
What your husband learned with you when he needs a bath at home, please continue to bathe him.
On Saturday morning, he needs to continue to sleep, you must
make sure the children do not bother him.
Keep close relationships, and be more involved.
He has also been working. He needs some space so that he has nothing to do. Organize your thoughts and relax.
So it’s not a bad thing to give you some space, it’s not a bad thing if they want it, don’t be angry if they want it.